So, how are your New Years Resolutions or your yearly goals going? Have you failed yet? I have.
One area that I’ve failed at already is weight loss. My weight dipped down to 235 lbs on Monday, January 28th, which is down from 271 lbs on Nov. 1, 2013. I knew I was on course to make my goal of losing 12 lbs. in January, which would put me at 233.
I’ve failed again in 2013. It was a doozey too. Even though I hadn’t used credit cards in five years I still had old credit card debt that needed to be paid. Instead of focusing on paying them off I focused on increasing my income and took two financial risks the last few years to increase it. They didn’t seem risky at the time however the result was both incidents cost me money instead of making me money.
The first one was a publishing contract for one of my songs. Two men I respected from church approached me to pitch a couple of my songs to major country artists in Nashville. One of the guys was in publishing twenty years ago and wanted to get back into the game. It was a bit flattering. The five page contract they handed me didn’t seem right, however. I decided to get some legal advice.
With the advice of one of the top music business attorneys in Nashville I decided to Continue Reading…
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As a musician/bar singer in Nashville, TN I always had a job to pay rent, etc. Gigs were feast and famine; some months I’d be busy playing gigs and some months not so busy. During the week I worked many seasonal jobs on farms, local wineries and in hotels. Even that work was inconsistent depending on the weather and the needs of the employer. So in 2008 I started Cool Springs Office Cleaning.
Do you have trouble juggling work, family, social events while trying to build a business or create art? This is a common area of struggle for people and I would like to share a story.
Over lunch with sales coach Pierce Marrs, he told me about how he started his business. He was thinking of starting a weekly blog, a podcast and a newsletter all at once. Pierce has a successful career in sales, a family and church activities he is involved with. His friend, Chuck Bowen, advised him that Continue Reading…
Will 2014 be a repeat of 2013 for you? Will you lose weight, get a raise, move to a new city, travel or find that special relationship you’ve been looking for? The key to making 2014 a better year will be the actions you take. You must act and you must be prepared to suffer to achieve.
That’s how it is with me. Nothing ever comes easily to me. I have plenty of ability but only if I work twice as hard as the next guy. I’ve made the Dean’s List in college, rode my bike 100 miles in a day, ran 13 miles, started a business and learned to write songs throughout my life. None of it was easy. I had to suffer and work my ass off every step of the way. If I ever stopped working hard I would lose everything I gained. That’s how it is with me and I suspect it may be that way for you as well.
Have you ever gotten into a funk and needed to turn your life around? Have you ever set a bunch of goals and then failed to accomplish them?
I have, a lot! I’ve learned that when coming back from a setback or a funk you’ve got to identify a couple of Keystone goals:One or two goals that would make the biggest difference in your life if you achieved them. These are the goals will give your life the biggest bang for the buck.
At the end of October of this year I was reflecting on my life and why I was stuck. I was fat, broke and not improving. ”How can I get out of this funk”, I was asked myself. I picked up my journal and started reviewing the past few years. Inside my journal I had recorded my weight, the amount of money I had saved, what is going on in life at that time and how I was feeling. 2010 was a banner year for me. I could see where I was overweight at the beginning of that year and my weight progressively went from 234 in March to 200 pounds in August, which is the least amount I’ve weighed in all of my life. I was running every day and could run 13 miles. I self-confident and inspired.
Reviewing My Journal
So I started looking at each day in my journal for that year. What was I doing? What was Continue Reading…
This isn’t a fun post to write. It’s about a failure, or should I say, another failure.
I had planned to re-launch my book, You Can Sleep In Your Car But You Can’t Drive Your House To Work, on August 27th. I had it all set up. I even had 28 incredible people signed up as a launch team. Yet for almost two months I’ve been relatively silent on my blog.
“As God is my witness, as God is my witness they’re not going to lick me. I’m going to live through this and when it’s over I’ll never be hungry again. No nor any of my foe. If I have to lie, steal, cheat or kill. As God is my witness I’ll never be hungry again!” -Scarlett O’hara
All great comebacks start with determination.
What can you learn from this video? Can you learn to channel your anger and frustrations to overcome obstacles in your life?
Recently I hired a studio and producer to record one of my songs,This Is Your Life. When the song was finished I was so excited and I knew it was a potential hit if I could get enough people to listen to it. So I made a radical decision, I decided to give it away for free.
It is a radical decision because this song is the pay off for years of dedication and sometimes frustrating work. Eighteen years ago I got rid of all my possessions except what would fit in my car and I moved to Nashville, TN, home of Country Music, to pursue a career in music.
I hung out with other songwriters and played at the Bluebird Cafe and other bars that hosted songwriter nights in Nashville. I listened for song ideas at work, at the mall, in the bars and everywhere else I went. I wrote the ideas on a napkins, notebooks or my hand if I didn’t have paper. I’ve written close to 1,000 songs and
1.) Have I ever sat in my cubicle on a sunny day, looking out a window and wished that I was weed eating the grass outside like the landscaping crew instead of being locked up inside?
2.) Have I ever finished paying all my bills to find out I have no money for myself?
3.) Do I have to get approval from my boss to take a vacation?
If you would rather be outside and your career has left you broke then why not quit?
When the power is in the game and you suck at the game you can either get better at the game or quit. If you are not a good fit for the game, in this case corporate business, then you will never win. If you quit the game, then you take all of the power away from it and can start taking control of your life.
I own and run Cool Springs Office Cleaning in Franklin, TN. We specialize in cleaning office condo’s of 4,00 square feet or less. You know those one story buildings in a business area of town that houses Consultants, Real Estate agents with eight or ten office condo’s per building. (Here are 5 tips for starting a service business)
What are you like when no one is looking?
Usually they are vacant when I clean on the weekends and the parking lots are empty. That was always the case except for one of my accounts. Every weekend one of the offices had a car parked out front. Sometimes when I left the area or when I was entering I see a businessman outside smoking so I always smiled Continue Reading…
For the past ten years I’ve wanted professional recordings of my songs. I told my friends how I couldn’t afford it and I’d never make my money back but I needed them promote my songs. I didn’t save the money and book a studio, all I did was bitch.
For the past seven years I have tried to quit smoking. I’ve told all my friends why I going to quit and how hard it is to quit and why I failed to quit. I didn’t quit, all I did was Continue Reading…
Have you ever felt like a slave to your job? Have you ever looked out your office windows at the lawn care guys and wish you were outside with a weed eater instead of stuck inside an office?
Let me tell you a story. In 2004 I worked for Verizon Wireless as a bill collector. I had a nice cubicle and advanced to the title of Sr. Financial Services Advisor. But I hated calling people all day and getting yelled at by them because they couldn’t pay their overdue cell phone bill. By May I had used up all of my personal days and vacation days for the year.
One day while driving into work I stopped at Starbucks and read and article in the New York Times about a contractor in Iraq who was captured by the Taliban and killed. He was about my age and went to Iraq to earn some extra money for his family. I asked myself, “If this was my last day on earth, would I go to work today?” My answer was Continue Reading…